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A New Take on Discussing Sexual Assault

this video and blog post openly talks about sexual assault and survivorship depicted in fiction. … Read More A New Take on Discussing Sexual Assault

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Processing the Past Through Writing

How writing changed my life and allowed me to forgive my past. One day I’d decided to sit outside with my dog under the shade of our backyard trees. It was the first warm spring day of the season and it felt like the perfect time to join him since he could always be found… Read More Processing the Past Through Writing

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Holiday Drama and How to Cope

Oh the holidays, the most wonderful time of the year… Maybe, but for some it can be one of the hardest periods of the year. Family of origin issues can bring down the mood for any holiday event or even make going to such events impossible. It can be a lonely period because loved ones… Read More Holiday Drama and How to Cope

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How To Compromise On Decorations With Your Spouse

The festive twinkle of lights, the smell of pine garland on your mantel and all of the Christmas decor you can fill your home with? Is your spouse the same way?… Read More How To Compromise On Decorations With Your Spouse

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Q&A on The Starless Series: I WROTE A PORN?

Watch Part I here!  I get asked a lot about sexuality in my books. So did I or did I now write a porn? In part two of my q&a about The Starless Series I talk about changing the science fiction genre, advice for pre-published Samantha, and SEX! Is it hot in here or just… Read More Q&A on The Starless Series: I WROTE A PORN?

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Q&A on The Starless Series: THE END IS NEAR?

In part one of my Q&A about The Starless Series and writing, I’m digging into gender norms, writing, and yes, even some serious topics. WARNING: I talk about assault and how it plays a role in the series. As a therapist I discuss representation and how authors can do a better job of handling mental… Read More Q&A on The Starless Series: THE END IS NEAR?

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Therapy is for EVERYONE!

Therapy is scary because the idea that we need help is terrifying. I’m here to explain that therapy is for everyone no matter the topic or concern.

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Female Condoms: A Guide

QUESTION: Why are female condoms so much less effective than male condoms? Why haven’t they been made more efficient? ANSWER: That’s a really great question! I hadn’t heard that before, and I am a champion of female condoms! I had to do a little investigation first, and here is what I found: -Female condoms are… Read More Female Condoms: A Guide