Sex, Relationships, Feminism, Writing

Q&A on The Starless Series: I WROTE A PORN?

Watch Part I here!  I get asked a lot about sexuality in my books. So did I or did I now write a porn? In part two of my q&a about The Starless Series I talk about changing the science fiction genre, advice for pre-published Samantha, and SEX! Is it hot in here or just… Read More Q&A on The Starless Series: I WROTE A PORN?

Sex, Relationships, Feminism, Writing

Q&A on The Starless Series: THE END IS NEAR?

In part one of my Q&A about The Starless Series and writing, I’m digging into gender norms, writing, and yes, even some serious topics. WARNING: I talk about assault and how it plays a role in the series. As a therapist I discuss representation and how authors can do a better job of handling mental… Read More Q&A on The Starless Series: THE END IS NEAR?

Sex, Feminism, Archives

Female Condoms: A Guide

QUESTION: Why are female condoms so much less effective than male condoms? Why haven’t they been made more efficient? ANSWER: That’s a really great question! I hadn’t heard that before, and I am a champion of female condoms! I had to do a little investigation first, and here is what I found: -Female condoms are… Read More Female Condoms: A Guide

Therapy, Relationships, Feminism, Writing, Archives

Pick Better Partners!

Pick Better Partners! If I had a dollar for every time someone asked me how to find the love of their life, I would be a rich woman. As a marriage therapist people like to think I have all the answers to life’s romantic mysteries. Fun fact: I don’t–– wish I did, but I don’t!… Read More Pick Better Partners!

Therapy, Sex, Relationships, Feminism

Things I Wish I Knew as a “Baby” Therapist

A few things to think about on the road to becoming a therapist. … Read More Things I Wish I Knew as a “Baby” Therapist

Feminism, Archives

My Feminism Doesn’t Have to be Your Feminism

My Feminism Doesn’t Have to Be Your Feminism There is no single way to be feminist; it is an ideal to guide you through life.  Throughout my life I have struggled with the idea of being a feminist. I was lost in a sea of definitions that I could partially relate to and then some… Read More My Feminism Doesn’t Have to be Your Feminism