Therapy, Writing, Archives

Marriage: It’s Hard, but It Doesn’t Have to Be

Marriage: It’s Hard, But it Doesn’t Have to Be As a therapist I always question my clients about how they know certain things. How do you know it has to be that way? How do you know you can’t do X, Y, or Z? How do you know? How? Why?  You get the idea. One of… Read More Marriage: It’s Hard, but It Doesn’t Have to Be

Therapy, Sex, Relationships, Archives

Spilling Tea with Samantha and Dr. B: Ep 8 Not Married= Fair Game?

In episode 8 of Spilling Tea w/ Samantha & Dr. B we start a conversation around commitment and whether or not its ok to hit on people who you know are in committed relationships. What are your thoughts? Let us know in the comments! Click HERE Do you want to be a guest star on… Read More Spilling Tea with Samantha and Dr. B: Ep 8 Not Married= Fair Game?

Feminism, Archives

My Name Is…

My name is…. I told you my name twice, I didn’t stutter. When I made the decision to get married I decided I wasn’t going to change my name. My last name to be exact. I wanted to keep it for many reasons but most importantly I didn’t feel I had to change it. It’s… Read More My Name Is…

Relationships, Archives

“TIME” to Get Married

“TIME” to Get Married Praise the heavens above! Someone, somewhere created an app that will tell me when to get married as if no one had ever tried to tell me what to do before. Thank goodness for this app because before this point I have been getting my whole life wrong! Finally a machine… Read More “TIME” to Get Married

Relationships, Feminism, Archives

A Feminist Wedding Ceremony

As some of you will recall from my far too many posts about getting married, it has finally happened and I have now married my life partner. We decided as a couple to share our ceremony. I know personally I wanted to put out into the world a feminist wedding ceremony that encompassed equality, partnership, friendship and… Read More A Feminist Wedding Ceremony