Therapy, Relationships, Archives

How To Compromise On Decorations With Your Spouse

The festive twinkle of lights, the smell of pine garland on your mantel and all of the Christmas decor you can fill your home with? Is your spouse the same way?… Read More How To Compromise On Decorations With Your Spouse

Sex, Relationships, Feminism, Writing

Q&A on The Starless Series: I WROTE A PORN?

Watch Part I here!  I get asked a lot about sexuality in my books. So did I or did I now write a porn? In part two of my q&a about The Starless Series I talk about changing the science fiction genre, advice for pre-published Samantha, and SEX! Is it hot in here or just… Read More Q&A on The Starless Series: I WROTE A PORN?

Therapy, Sex, Relationships

Self Love: A Moving Target Worth Hitting

Self love is a moving target. It’s the best gift we can give ourselves, but what happens when we’re running on empty? This week I’m opening up about a low moment in my life where I lost all sense of self and forgot to love myself. Samantha Heuwagen is a sex therapist, author, and activist… Read More Self Love: A Moving Target Worth Hitting

Therapy, Relationships, Archives

How to Find A Therapist

Looking for a therapist? Here’s a quick video about a few things to keep in mind.… Read More How to Find A Therapist

Therapy, Relationships, Writing, Archives

A Thank You to Those Who’ve Helped Bring DATS to Life

I have never ever considered writing a solo sport. Heck, with my various learning disabilities it’d be one bumpy ride to read my original work––no one should ever have to see that, but there have been a few who’ve had the unfortunate pleasure of reading the unedited drafts and without their encouraging, sometimes blunt, responses… Read More A Thank You to Those Who’ve Helped Bring DATS to Life

Therapy, Relationships, Archives

New Office, Who This?

There comes a time in every clinician’s life where they find themselves looking around their office and realize the inspiration to help clients is just not there. For me it wasn’t only that, it was the feedback from my clients that made me wonder: is this the space for me? My old space, that I’ve… Read More New Office, Who This?