Sex, Archives

What’s Wrong With Porn?

What’s Wrong with Porn? Yesterday I decided to try something for the first time, no I am lying to you, I’ve tried it many times before: I went to watch porn. Not just for my viewing pleasure, but because I was actually interested in watching.  Everyone watches porn. No, stop, you know you do. Porn… Read More What’s Wrong With Porn?

Feminism, Archives

Young People and the Pressure to Lead Lives of the Past

Young People and the Pressure to Leave Lives of the Past Last time I checked it was 2018.  Listening to my peers you might think that we have all time traveled back to the much romanticized period of the 1950s. Friends of mine tell me their experiences of family members, friends and even strangers approaching… Read More Young People and the Pressure to Lead Lives of the Past

Sex, Archives

Holy Side Boob! How I learned to Love my Body

Holy Side Boob! The fierce Ms. Tyra Banks would be proud of me. A few months ago, I was photographed from every angle by the lovely, Katie Merritt for a boudoir photo shoot. Now, don’t get too excited, these were neither X rated nor anything found in the pages of Playboy, but elegant shots that… Read More Holy Side Boob! How I learned to Love my Body

Therapy, Sex, Relationships

10 Ways to Be Sex Positive

10 Ways to be Sex Positive As of late being Sex Positive has been dominating my brain waves. Maybe it’s because I have just successfully defended my thesis narrative on the subject or how I have noticed so many people asking me how to be sex positive. How do you become Sex Positive? Is there… Read More 10 Ways to Be Sex Positive

Therapy, Sex, Relationships, Feminism

You Want A Date? 8 Tips to Finding Your Groove

You Want A Date? 8 Tips to Finding Your Groove You’re young, you’re interested in dating and want to meet a lot of new people because you can and you want to see what works best for you in a relationship. I applaud you, my friend!  But first let me tell you how… No, wait.… Read More You Want A Date? 8 Tips to Finding Your Groove

Therapy, Sex, Relationships, Feminism

I Like Sex: Am I Sex Positive?

Am I Sex Positive? Editors Note: This is an article Ms. Heuwagen wrote in 2014 between Master’s programs. My sex life didn’t start out on the most positive of notes. Boys abused me, pressured me and confused me about the whole act of sex. The images I was given through the media didn’t help either.… Read More I Like Sex: Am I Sex Positive?