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Holy Side Boob! How I learned to Love my Body

Holy Side Boob! The fierce Ms. Tyra Banks would be proud of me. A few months ago, I was photographed from every angle by the lovely, Katie Merritt for a boudoir photo shoot. Now, don’t get too excited, these were neither X rated nor anything found in the pages of Playboy, but elegant shots that… Read More Holy Side Boob! How I learned to Love my Body

Therapy, Sex, Relationships

10 Ways to Be Sex Positive

10 Ways to be Sex Positive As of late being Sex Positive has been dominating my brain waves. Maybe it’s because I have just successfully defended my thesis narrative on the subject or how I have noticed so many people asking me how to be sex positive. How do you become Sex Positive? Is there… Read More 10 Ways to Be Sex Positive

Therapy, Sex, Relationships, Feminism

You Want A Date? 8 Tips to Finding Your Groove

You Want A Date? 8 Tips to Finding Your Groove You’re young, you’re interested in dating and want to meet a lot of new people because you can and you want to see what works best for you in a relationship. I applaud you, my friend!  But first let me tell you how… No, wait.… Read More You Want A Date? 8 Tips to Finding Your Groove

Therapy, Sex, Relationships, Feminism

I Like Sex: Am I Sex Positive?

Am I Sex Positive? Editors Note: This is an article Ms. Heuwagen wrote in 2014 between Master’s programs. My sex life didn’t start out on the most positive of notes. Boys abused me, pressured me and confused me about the whole act of sex. The images I was given through the media didn’t help either.… Read More I Like Sex: Am I Sex Positive?

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Dr. B and Samantha Share Their Favorite Sex Quotes!

Everyone likes a good quote, but what about a sex quote? In the latest episode of Spilling Tea w/ Samantha and Dr. B we talk about two of our favorite sex quotes – quotes that inspire us to teach, respond, research, and practice in sexology. What is your favorite sex quote!? How do quotes impact you??… Read More Dr. B and Samantha Share Their Favorite Sex Quotes!

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Vulvas Are Not Ugly

Vulvas Are Not Ugly “All vaginas are ugly.” “What?” “All vaginas are ugly.” “Vaginas are just tunnels- love tunnels!” “No they are ugly.” “Are you talking about the outside?” *Shakes Head* “So you mean the vulva?” “Yeah, sure. They are still ugly.” “You realize you have one right?” *Silence*