Sex, Relationships, Feminism, Writing

Q&A on The Starless Series: I WROTE A PORN?

Watch Part I here!  I get asked a lot about sexuality in my books. So did I or did I now write a porn? In part two of my q&a about The Starless Series I talk about changing the science fiction genre, advice for pre-published Samantha, and SEX! Is it hot in here or just… Read More Q&A on The Starless Series: I WROTE A PORN?

Therapy, Relationships

Looking for a therapist? Read this first!

When I started my therapy program at Mercer University, one of the first things they told me was to get my own therapist to work out any issues I might have. Odd, I thought at first, but after I thought about it some, it made perfect sense: why would you want to work with a… Read More Looking for a therapist? Read this first!

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A New Take on Discussing Sexual Assault

this video and blog post openly talks about sexual assault and survivorship depicted in fiction. … Read More A New Take on Discussing Sexual Assault

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Pick Better Partners!

Pick Better Partners! If I had a dollar for every time someone asked me how to find the love of their life, I would be a rich woman. As a marriage therapist people like to think I have all the answers to life’s romantic mysteries. Fun fact: I don’t–– wish I did, but I don’t!… Read More Pick Better Partners!

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The Power of Language

We all use language in some way. How much power does it have over us anyway? … Read More The Power of Language

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Processing the Past Through Writing

How writing changed my life and allowed me to forgive my past. One day I’d decided to sit outside with my dog under the shade of our backyard trees. It was the first warm spring day of the season and it felt like the perfect time to join him since he could always be found… Read More Processing the Past Through Writing